Hi everyone! I will discuss in this post how we can control our emotions. Really, this is a very simple recipe. Again, I apologize in advance for my bad English.
Please correct my mistakes in your comments.
So, if you
want to learn how to manage your psychological complexes, first you must learn
to manage emotions.
Sometimes
we encounter great psychological stress in our lives. In this case, we become
victims of our emotions very often. Anger or resentment seizes us. Then we
can not talk properly and make the right decisions in this state. Then we
become like little helpless children.
Our ability
to manage emotions is our culture and our personal freedom.
Educated
person differs from the ill-mannered in the first place so that he can control
his emotions, even where this is difficult. The developed person is able to
control himself always.
Adult tough
life teaches us to generate emotions. For years, the movie taught us too.
Constantly
we see in the movies, the heroes who have driven by passions, make some crazy
things. Sometimes, the whole plot is built on it. Characters of films quarrel,
angry, shouting at each other. Sometimes they do not even have a convincing
reason.
And in the
end, we believe that human personality are a set of passions, quirks, defects,
complexes, fears and emotional outbursts. On the other hand, public morals and
corporate culture taught us to suppress
emotions. Usually our bosses want it, too. Sometimes our teachers and our
parents have done so too. So many of us are accustomed to suffer in secret.
Therefore,
the first thing we have to draw the line between "control of
emotions," and "suppression of emotions." We wear in ourselves a canned emotions.
Perhaps you have heard how dangerous it is. Over time, these habits lead to
neurosis or depression. That is, we become jumpy or whiners. The sad old age...
Have you seen people who spend a lot of
effort in order to they can hide the symptoms of their mental illness...
So actually
we must become real managers of our mental state. It's like when we get a good
job. We need to show people that what we are good managers. We must find ways
to manage subordinates. Otherwise, our boss will find us a replacement.
Now, to
business.
HOW CAN I
CONTROL MY EMOTIONS?
In usual
situations, emotions run directly. It is a simple and natural as if we are
going to raise their hand. If we want to raise your hand, we don't need special
techniques. We just raise your hand and just omit it.
You should
be able to control your emotions in this way, too.
The best
recipe is very simple. An expression of your facial will help you. Change the expression on your
face if you want to remove unnecessary emotion. React quickly. Change your face
before bad emotions have time to gain strength. Correct your eyes and lips.
Remember
the "picture of your body". What is your posture? Where are your
hands and your feet just now? Where are your fingers?
Adopt
correct posture.
The one who
suppresses his emotions he looks depressed. But the person who controls his
emotions, looks like he wants.
I had
depression as a child and as a teenager. This lasted until I learned to control
my breathing. Control of the physiology of the body is the first step to
control mentality.
You know
how to do it. When guests come to your house, at first you smile , and your
smile start a complex mechanism of
emotions. You show concern for your guests and soon pleasant emotions come to
you as you think. In fact, you yourself change your emotional state.
Do not
think that the management of emotions is a difficult task. But think that it is
a vital necessity. Constant training will lead to rapid results.
It is also
a habit to manage emotions gives rise to the ability to be aware. It is the
ability to control their attention.
Before
training, we have to comprehend the benefits that we get from these actions.
As a rule,
people do not realize that anger, resentment or hysteria is always our personal
choice. They think that bad emotions are their natural reaction.
Our
training will help us to correct our wrong and erroneous behavior that we have
learned in our childhood.
Do not
leave it for later.
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